Dating

What your parents should have told you about being understood and understanding - For sure my own parents never said anything to me about this fundamental shift of focus that moves your relationships either toward greatness or deflated -ness. Once my eyes were opened to it I have never looked at a human interaction the same way again. My eyes were first open by Bo, a good friend of mine. He offered this perspective on relationships, well on any meeting with another human being. It was amazed at the simplicity of it. So lets pop the million dollar question; are you a person who strive to understand others or to be understood by others? And are you able to catch yourself in the midst of a discussion to clarify which of the two you are focusing on in the moment? I claim that in any discussion or conflict that is moving in a downward spiral towards negativity, where the parties feel stuck or where the heat of the moment is mounting, that this discussion is going where it is going because there is too much focus on being understood instead of understanding the other person. A typical behaviour that we indulge into when we focus on being understood is that we have what we are going to say next playing in our head, rehearsing it, while we half-heartedly listen to the other or are just waiting for the other to catch his or her breath for a short moment so we can jump in and say what we want to have said.

Dating Thoughts: Ideas about Dating Today - Dating today is a minefield of political correctness, social and cultural expectations, and a supposed freedom to date who you want regardless of age, race, gender or religion.

How To Stop Break Up - Contacting Your Ex Tactically - "How to stop break up when my ex completely ignores me? He/she doesn't even bother to answer my phone calls. He/she won't even reply any of my text messages. Do you think I still have any chances?"

Creating Instant Sexual Chemistry With a Woman - Sexual chemistry is a crucial element to building attraction and moving a woman towards seduction. In this article, you'll discover how to create instant physical chemistry with a woman.

Top 8 Adult Dating Secrets You Need When You Date - These are 8 dating secrets for you to make the most out of the adult dating game and armed you with adult dating tactics and ethics to properly impress your dates.

Does a Law on Human Relationship Attraction Exist? - "Opposites attract" is a law of attraction, at least where electromagnetism is concerned. But are there laws about attraction between two people? Is attraction a matter of chemistry? Read on to learn more and make attraction in your relationships work for you.

Relationships: When to Listen, When to Walk Away - We've all been in relationships where we are wondering if it worth staying in.

Top 3 Couple Compatibility Questions Solved - I've asked some people in my mailing list on subject of couple compatibility, asking about their couple compatibility problems and what they want to know. I have had a lot of answers to that email, so it seems great idea to answer the 3 of the most common questions in this article. Here you go.

3 Great Dating Tips For Men - Having the right tools and a healthy self esteem can help you succeed in making a woman like you and long for another date. This article shows you how.

7 Winning First Date Secrets for Senior Dating - These are 7 winning first dates secrets especially for senior dating and will show you how you can regain your dating prowess as you had in your teens back then.